Some women are afraid to have sex during pregnancy, so as not to harm the fetus, cause miscarriage, or premature birth. How justified are the fears?
Sexual relations during pregnancy are acceptable and even desirable, but with reservations. The expectant mother should definitely consult with the gynecologist who is seeing her. The doctor must express his opinion based on the data of an in-person examination. Only a specialist can assess the state of uterine tone and conclude whether there is a danger of miscarriage or premature birth. Do not hesitate to ask your doctor such questions - we are talking about a very significant part of life.
But there is an important point that gynecologists do not always speak clearly enough about. When a doctor does not recommend that a pregnant woman be sexually active, he does not only mean penetration of the penis into the vagina. It is understood that it is generally undesirable for a woman to experience strong sexual arousal, which can provoke an increase in the tone of the uterus. As practice shows, not everyone understands this.
For example, a couple does not lead a sexual life in the classical sense. However, during fellatio (oral sex for a man), the partner, especially if she is a temperamental woman, can become very excited. This condition leads to undesirable consequences. Therefore, when engaging in stimulation, you should not get too “immersed in the process.” Cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) is usually not recommended during pregnancy.