The advantages and disadvantages of being a mom of 35 years and over

Many women today expect more late to have a child. They are often highly educated, highlighted their careers and have therefore decided to start a family after 35 years. For others, fertility problems have forced them to be patient and medical advances in this field gave them the chance to design but a little later than expected ... The upside is that these women often 35 years and older are more emotionally and financially stable than younger mothers.

 You are pregnant

Late pregnancy is more prone to miscarriage and chromosomal problems are more common, so detection tests are available from the first quarter, allowing it to be more relaxed on the continuation of pregnancy.
The mother of 35 and older, more mature, is generally better able to monitor his health and ensure the smooth running of her pregnancy. In return, she will probably be more tired and more prone to conceive twins, even without treatment against infertility. A special monitor, the rate of diabetes and blood pressure, which can occur more than young mothers.



You will give birth

Being likely to develop gestational diabetes or hypertension increases the risk of delivering before the scheduled term. In labor may also be longer and, due to less flexibility and less tonic muscles, the rate of cesarean delivery is higher than among young mothers. That said, your delivery will depend on how much you take care of yourself during pregnancy.

You are finally Mom

More mature, you have to 35 years and over made a conscious decision by conceiving a baby and it will have a huge impact on how you will face all situations that arise. You make motherhood a priority and even if you lose your freedom, you know now what you want and accept full responsibility. That said, this will be a radical change in your life, especially if you have had a career before beating drums. The sharing with other moms in your situation will support and help. If you have been waiting for this baby for years for medical reasons, you may experience more stress than another mom because of all the hopes that you place in this child.

Being older will bring advantages and disadvantages. But any relationship that you establish with your child will depend on factors that have nothing to do with your year of birth. Priority, it is love that you will send him to create the link that will be built between you two. And values that you will convey that will ensure his happiness and yours.