Your breasts become more generous, your body flourishes and your belly swells ... In short, you feel that pregnancy makes you sexy and desirable. But your spouse does not see maybe not in this eye. Some men may indeed be remote to show respect to their pregnant wives, to refuse to have sex. Here are some ways to better understand why a man may avoid sex during pregnancy of his wife.
Fear of hurting the baby
Sexual intercourse during pregnancy is usually safe. Yet some men are afraid of hurting the baby or cause a miscarriage, unaware that the fetus is well protected by the amniotic fluid and uterus.
The feeling that a third person is present in the room
Certainly, if that person was Jessica Simpson, he did not complain! But when he feels the presence of her child, this can cause him a sense of unease. It may seem that a third person is present when you have sex.
The idea that his daughter can see the discouraged
Men who know they will have a little girl, confessed he would rather not have sex during pregnancy of their wives. During the act, they can not help thinking about the baby and being so close to their daughter disturb them.
Sex positions: a real headache
Finding the right position during sex may prove to be a real headache. With breast enlargement, which can make them sensitive, even painful and round belly, that's not very obvious for the man to find the proper sexual position where both partners will have fun. So he prefers not to go forward for fear of injury.
Fear of hurting you
If your spouse shows remote to you until you refuse to have sex is that there is an explanation. Your other half may have fear of being unable to control himself during the act and hurt you. In these times, partners should discuss their needs, concerns and desires openly and frankly.
Fear that his sperm triggers premature labor
Trigger premature labor because he ejaculated in you ... This idea can completely panic. Semen contains prostaglandins that help open the cervix and thus can cause other contractions but they are safe if the pregnancy is normal.
Fear triggers an orgasm miscarriage
Some men believe that an orgasm can cause a miscarriage. The uterus contracts during orgasm, sometimes intense, up to half an hour after sex. But if the pregnancy goes smoothly, without any particular problems, the contractions are once again safe.
Intercourse during pregnancy through many physical and psychological tests. All couples find changes in their romantic relationship during those nine months. If your spouse avoids having sex with you, this is probably related to the fear of injuring yourself and baby, not because he wants you more!