Expectant parents are often faced with a lack of intimate desire at the beginning of pregnancy. It is important to remember that a man and a woman during this period are in different psychological states. A decrease in libido in a woman is typical for the first trimester and is explained not only by strong hormonal fluctuations, but also by a suddenly increased burden of responsibility - both for herself and for the unborn baby.
The emotional ups and downs that often affect a woman during pregnancy can cause a mixed reaction in the future dad: many men are lost and don’t know how to behave when their loved one pulls away, is capricious or cries for no apparent reason, they are afraid of hurting her or making her uncomfortable during pregnancy. proximity. It is worth remembering that the future father, no less than the mother, deserves attention and respect for his experiences. This period is also not easy for him: the man thinks about how to maintain well-being, protect and provide everything necessary for the new life entrusted to his family, while the expectant mother is busy carrying the baby.
Fortunately, in most cases, by the second trimester - when the expectant parents finally get used to their new status - the desire returns, and mutual understanding in the couple improves. The key to success in this matter is to trust each other and not be shy to discuss with your closest person everything that worries and concerns you.