"Do not spoil the child close"

Women have responded since ancient times. But despite being one of the most natural things in human life, I am not unusual for the questions, many of the new parents. How often eat a baby anyway? Embarrass my child away? How can I increase milk production? Why would the child not to eat?

On the breastfeeding clinic we receive very many questions and concerns from parents who are anxious and insecure when it comes to breastfeeding. I marvel that there are quite many new parents who have relatively little knowledge of how a normal newborn behavior. Something that certainly may be that many who have children today may not have friends who have children and you do not snatch up the child may behave. For example it is not uncommon for parents to have a notion that a child eats around every four hours and sleep time remaining. New parents turned simply often of many issues that they have not thought of before.



To have children is among the largest you can do in life. A child in most cases very large consequences to one's private and professional lives.

Many of today's young women, aged 20 to 35, are very individualistic, with integrity, and with a lot going on and is going on in life, not least the purely professional. Like most young adults today are accustomed to go shopping when you want and do what you want of his time. So it is clear that a child means big changes for both mother and father.

Just because you have children you must not stay home, but the fact is that one can do much more than people think. Have you ever had an active life and like to do things you do not stop doing that just because a child has entered the picture. If, however, is that you want to stay at home, you got to do it. But what about the child in question does not really think too much on whether you are home or away. You could say that the child's environment is the parents' bodies. As long as they know that mom or dad's absence and inspire safety are satisfied.

Today it is not uncommon to have children after 30. There are various explanations for why this is so. People today are more eager to plan and be sure to have education, jobs and a good economy. There is a general desire to grow up first and then be able to care for a child as well. Unfortunately, however, to have children after the age of 30 years is not always the best.

Purely biologically speaking, I would say that it is not the best option. Partly because fertility decreases and it becomes stiffer and stiffer, the higher up in the age to come, which means that the birth may be a little harder. Another important factor is that younger people have an easier time adjusting to a child, they are not as worried and anxious as a little older. Let's say a man and woman in the 35-year-olds have children. These individuals are most likely quite boxed everyday with work and private events and routines. Young parents are often more easily adapted.

The most important thing to remember is that children want to be physically close. Many do not realize that the child has a very strong need to feel the closeness and security. When a child is born into the world is their only role for survival and they are in constant need of his mother or father. Some parents tend to ask me and my colleagues if they spoil his / her children when they are constantly carried on and may be close to mother's breast even though they may not eat. However, that it is impossible to spoil their children close. If, however, he is sleeping there is no reason to interfere. But make sure to be there when he / she wakes up and show that your child can feel safe.